Cord Moving and Storage Quote For The Day

“Don’t wait for extraordinary opportunities. Seize common occasions and make them great.” 

Orson Swett Marden

 There are only 5 more Selling Days in April and 48 remaining in the Quarter!!!

 Sitting around waiting for that great opportunity is just “burning daylight” my Pappy would say. Fear doesn’t work the way we think it does. I’ll teach you something cool about fear that you can start putting to use right away that was shared with me many years ago.

When something scares you, you usually just have an aversion to the notion of that thing. Just the thought of making certain phone calls, confronting certain people, or making certain commitments makes the butterflies bubble up.

This is the point where we usually back down, and distract ourselves from the thought of it by checking email or doing some cleaning or organizing that suddenly seems important.

Most fears keep us at arm’s length so that we back down at just the idea of doing something nerve-wracking. The fear has done its job — to keep us from going there — and so we don’t look any closer at what it is we’re really afraid of about that idea.

If you do look closely at almost any fear, it’s always a specific moment you’re fearing. A moment with awful feelings in it — awkwardness, pain, shame, guilt, horror, angst. Life unfolds only in moments, so what else could the problem be except some of the moments that you might run into?

Ultimately that’s all you are ever fearing: moments that you believe will force you to experience feelings you really don’t want to experience. If you really break it down there’s nothing else that drives us but the appeal of feelings we want to experience and the fear of feelings we don’t want to experience.

Whatever the feeling is, it’s a feeling you’ve already experienced at some point in your life. You couldn’t be afraid of it if you hadn’t.

The longer we live, the more nasty experiences we have, and the more fears we carry around. But we forget that it’s really acute experiences we’re trying to avoid, and instead we let entire categories of actions and notions get dismissed from our lives, because they represent those experiences.

Go out and have a great Selling Day and make a difference in at least one person’s life today.

 

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